This woman's right. Now that I think about it, why do ppl make so many guns anyway? Were not having a war i n the US. All these guns create war. Another thing, the boxcar the kids broke into in Richmond, why was there a box car full of assault rifles going thru our cities any dahm way? When I found out my son sold one w/ a scope to an adult gun collector I started watching his room. After fighting w/ him & tossing 2 guns in the junk yard I finally got it thru his thick skull, wheeling & dealing guns or drugs will send us straight to hell. It ruins lives & lchildren suffer! I was so glad when that phase was over. My friend went thru the same thing & took the door off the hinges to her son's bedrm. I went over & seen a big door in the hallway & asked her wth?! She said I told that lil [bleep] to stop locking the door. Unfortunately, her son shot an older bully, 20+ rounds, b4 she succeeded getting him thru (ghetto rites-of-passage, men call it). He had just made 18 & now going to trial facing life in prison.
I put this here b/c I know ALOT of mothers also go thru the same thing. It's very hard raising a son (s) alone. The things kids do sometimes can be very embarassing, I know, but u have 2 look pass that & try to get help, even if it means talking about it w/ more-experienced mothers. U can't give up on your children. I also know that fighting w/ them takes alot of energy. It's so tempting to jus throw the towel in & put it in God's hands. It's up to us to instill spiritual knowledge & religion in your children(water the seed)...to nurture them in good things, then keep hammering it in & keep reminding him of the consequences, 7/24 till he can discern right from wrong wisely. Instill in him the saddness & grief his actions can bring upon others & yourself till he feels the pain. Make him feel it. Don't let it go in one ear & right out the other. Minister Keith use to read the news to the kids before allowing them to go to class, where my son attended school. After reading the article he'd explain to them consequences in society & thru God, & other ways 2 deal w/ a bad situation. I kept this up after my son graduated & would sit on the side of his bed in the morn. This way I knew I had his full attention (just a lil advice which may help). Hopefully by sharing this other mothers will realize they're not alone. Whatever u do DON'T LET YOUR KIDS RUN YOU & don't let them lose their conscious. How can God help anyone w/ out a conscious? Now this mother lost 2 sons, where 2 other mothers (or fathers), may have failed. Nothing beats a failure but a try. Too many parents jus give up & leave their kids to the streets & system, an who has to suffer? their victims, the parents that don't give up, the schools & tax payers
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